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		<title>By: Corin</title>
		<link>http://www.infpblog.com/day-to-day/healthy-procrastination/comment-page-1/#comment-10346</link>
		<dc:creator>Corin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2011 13:55:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We rarely value the action.  Instead, we value the result that those actions achieve.  We don&#039;t value eating broccoli.  We value the result of eating broccoli and having a better diet which is health.  If we don&#039;t value the result than why bother doing any of the actions? Also, most people don&#039;t recognize that their goal isn&#039;t what they really value.  Health isn&#039;t the real value but what they think health will bring like feeling better about themselves or confidence or getting a significant other now that they&#039;ve lost all this weight.  It&#039;s not better health that was end value, but the result of better health.  Better health was us the means value and not the ends value.

Same with getting a college degree.  A degree isn&#039;t the ends value.  It&#039;s what the person think the degree will get them, i.e. a job, respect, etc.  Same with fighting for a cause, it&#039;s not the cause but what the fighting for a cause will bring--a sense of self-worth, significance, direction. 

Once you figure out why you want something then it&#039;s all about methodology.   There&#039;s always multiple methods to get to various goals.  You end up finding the one that reflects your Creative Self-Expression.  You choose the method that says, this way of doing it reflects who I am as a person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We rarely value the action.  Instead, we value the result that those actions achieve.  We don&#8217;t value eating broccoli.  We value the result of eating broccoli and having a better diet which is health.  If we don&#8217;t value the result than why bother doing any of the actions? Also, most people don&#8217;t recognize that their goal isn&#8217;t what they really value.  Health isn&#8217;t the real value but what they think health will bring like feeling better about themselves or confidence or getting a significant other now that they&#8217;ve lost all this weight.  It&#8217;s not better health that was end value, but the result of better health.  Better health was us the means value and not the ends value.</p>
<p>Same with getting a college degree.  A degree isn&#8217;t the ends value.  It&#8217;s what the person think the degree will get them, i.e. a job, respect, etc.  Same with fighting for a cause, it&#8217;s not the cause but what the fighting for a cause will bring&#8211;a sense of self-worth, significance, direction. </p>
<p>Once you figure out why you want something then it&#8217;s all about methodology.   There&#8217;s always multiple methods to get to various goals.  You end up finding the one that reflects your Creative Self-Expression.  You choose the method that says, this way of doing it reflects who I am as a person.</p>
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		<title>By: Birdie</title>
		<link>http://www.infpblog.com/day-to-day/healthy-procrastination/comment-page-1/#comment-10340</link>
		<dc:creator>Birdie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2011 09:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For clarity&#039;s sake: you say that in order to complete a goal we&#039;ve set we must put high value on it? If so... how do we do that? How do we make ourselves value something that seems tedious, like... well, you used the example about veggies. I can know logically that broccoli is healthy for me and that I&#039;d like to be healthy. However, I can still look at broccoli and feel absolutely nothing.

Or, perhaps I misinterpret, and you mean that instead of avoiding broccoli and the metaphorical tedium it represents, we should seek out foods for the soul which are both healthy and tasty to us? Like squash (for me :P) or fighting for a cause?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For clarity&#8217;s sake: you say that in order to complete a goal we&#8217;ve set we must put high value on it? If so&#8230; how do we do that? How do we make ourselves value something that seems tedious, like&#8230; well, you used the example about veggies. I can know logically that broccoli is healthy for me and that I&#8217;d like to be healthy. However, I can still look at broccoli and feel absolutely nothing.</p>
<p>Or, perhaps I misinterpret, and you mean that instead of avoiding broccoli and the metaphorical tedium it represents, we should seek out foods for the soul which are both healthy and tasty to us? Like squash (for me <img src='http://www.infpblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> ) or fighting for a cause?</p>
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		<title>By: NancyA</title>
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		<dc:creator>NancyA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 21:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With regard to insight &amp; behavioral change, I present this insipid article from the Times:
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/18/health/views/18mind.html?src=me&amp;ref=homepage

Feeling good is complicated. You&#039;ve heard about the delayed gratification baby study? Check it out:
http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2009/05/18/090518fa_fact_lehrer</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With regard to insight &amp; behavioral change, I present this insipid article from the Times:<br />
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/18/health/views/18mind.html?src=me&#038;ref=homepage" rel="nofollow">http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/18/health/views/18mind.html?src=me&#038;ref=homepage</a></p>
<p>Feeling good is complicated. You&#8217;ve heard about the delayed gratification baby study? Check it out:<br />
<a href="http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2009/05/18/090518fa_fact_lehrer" rel="nofollow">http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2009/05/18/090518fa_fact_lehrer</a></p>
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		<title>By: Corin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 17:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think I procrastinate for two reason:

1.  It feels good.  Even if it&#039;s work I like doing it&#039;s still work.  And doing not-work feels much better than doing work.

2.  For some stupid reason, I feel that it&#039;s more fulfilling to challenge myself doing work at the last second than using all the time I alotted.

I&#039;ve had that insight about myself for years.  However, insight in itself doesn&#039;t produce behavior changes.  It really takes a habit change and some habits are very hard to break.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I procrastinate for two reason:</p>
<p>1.  It feels good.  Even if it&#8217;s work I like doing it&#8217;s still work.  And doing not-work feels much better than doing work.</p>
<p>2.  For some stupid reason, I feel that it&#8217;s more fulfilling to challenge myself doing work at the last second than using all the time I alotted.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve had that insight about myself for years.  However, insight in itself doesn&#8217;t produce behavior changes.  It really takes a habit change and some habits are very hard to break.</p>
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		<title>By: NancyA</title>
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		<dc:creator>NancyA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 17:23:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this post.
For some reason, people laugh when I say that I&#039;m an aspiring introvert. But I am! Meyers-Briggs typers tend to think I&#039;m a flaming ENFP. With age I have cultivated the ability to be more inward and, hopefully, inner-directed. Hah!

you write:
&quot;When INFPs procrastinate, we go into avoidance mode. We seek comfort in the Not-Important activities. It’s our reward first for our short burst of frenzied work later. Meanwhile the Not-Urgent/Important stuff that’s time sensitive starts creeping into the Urgent/Important category. So it feels like were always stressed from going from one crisis to another. Those repeated short bursts of stress-filled activity starts wearing us down day after day until we shut down.&quot;

I&#039;ve been tortured in the last few weeks about (not) doing a freelance project that is hanging over my head in a conspicuous neon sign with marquis lights.  Anxiety, city

Today, my procrastination included googling &quot;procrastination personality type&quot;. Thus my visit to your site.

&quot;Filling the pantry of our time means having goals we feel are worth accomplishing. It means having goals we can act upon now. Without these goals, what’s left is television and Googling . . .&quot;

Is it possible that insight facilitates transformation? Does productivity loom?

I am in some despair about the degree to which I put things off. I was under the impression that you wrote somewhere about the need for resonance. . . may be not. I think there is some connection between my being on my own and procrastination. I don&#039;t have people to answer to in the same way that one does in an office. No one is looking at my productivity levels with genuine interest.

Of course my client is feeling a little abandoned -- but he&#039;s getting a pretty good deal for  my services. I use that to rationalize the delays. This is taking the sort of risk that seems unwise.

I think I&#039;ll take your personality test now.
; )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this post.<br />
For some reason, people laugh when I say that I&#8217;m an aspiring introvert. But I am! Meyers-Briggs typers tend to think I&#8217;m a flaming ENFP. With age I have cultivated the ability to be more inward and, hopefully, inner-directed. Hah!</p>
<p>you write:<br />
&#8220;When INFPs procrastinate, we go into avoidance mode. We seek comfort in the Not-Important activities. It’s our reward first for our short burst of frenzied work later. Meanwhile the Not-Urgent/Important stuff that’s time sensitive starts creeping into the Urgent/Important category. So it feels like were always stressed from going from one crisis to another. Those repeated short bursts of stress-filled activity starts wearing us down day after day until we shut down.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been tortured in the last few weeks about (not) doing a freelance project that is hanging over my head in a conspicuous neon sign with marquis lights.  Anxiety, city</p>
<p>Today, my procrastination included googling &#8220;procrastination personality type&#8221;. Thus my visit to your site.</p>
<p>&#8220;Filling the pantry of our time means having goals we feel are worth accomplishing. It means having goals we can act upon now. Without these goals, what’s left is television and Googling . . .&#8221;</p>
<p>Is it possible that insight facilitates transformation? Does productivity loom?</p>
<p>I am in some despair about the degree to which I put things off. I was under the impression that you wrote somewhere about the need for resonance. . . may be not. I think there is some connection between my being on my own and procrastination. I don&#8217;t have people to answer to in the same way that one does in an office. No one is looking at my productivity levels with genuine interest.</p>
<p>Of course my client is feeling a little abandoned &#8212; but he&#8217;s getting a pretty good deal for  my services. I use that to rationalize the delays. This is taking the sort of risk that seems unwise.</p>
<p>I think I&#8217;ll take your personality test now.<br />
; )</p>
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		<title>By: ockhamdesign</title>
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		<dc:creator>ockhamdesign</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 20:49:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Unfortunately, I had to stop playing video games when I had kids.  I love video games still but I find that I only have a couple of hours every few months.  Now when I procrastinate, I either exercise or write for my blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately, I had to stop playing video games when I had kids.  I love video games still but I find that I only have a couple of hours every few months.  Now when I procrastinate, I either exercise or write for my blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 02:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LMAO - this is so me. Hahahaha. One Saturday awhile back, I was feeling particularly stressed, so I played my favorite video game, The Sims 3, for about 8 hours straight, instead of actually going laundry, etc, like I needed to be doing. The longer I played, the more I wanted to procrastinate. As I was playing it felt great!, but afterwards I felt so heavy and lethargic - &quot;fat&quot; in the emotional sense. And then I proceeded to do a whirlwind tour of my house, cleaning dishes, laundry, scrubbing the toilet - all in about 10 minutes I did most of the cleaning that I&#039;d been putting off all day! Lol. It was great to not have that procrastination hanging over my head anymore though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LMAO &#8211; this is so me. Hahahaha. One Saturday awhile back, I was feeling particularly stressed, so I played my favorite video game, The Sims 3, for about 8 hours straight, instead of actually going laundry, etc, like I needed to be doing. The longer I played, the more I wanted to procrastinate. As I was playing it felt great!, but afterwards I felt so heavy and lethargic &#8211; &#8220;fat&#8221; in the emotional sense. And then I proceeded to do a whirlwind tour of my house, cleaning dishes, laundry, scrubbing the toilet &#8211; all in about 10 minutes I did most of the cleaning that I&#8217;d been putting off all day! Lol. It was great to not have that procrastination hanging over my head anymore though.</p>
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		<title>By: Sharalynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharalynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 05:29:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I operate the same way with procrastination.  I&#039;m an INFP as well.  I&#039;m not completely with you on the junk food thing (I&#039;m nearly a vegetarian nowadays), but I LOVE sweets and reward myself often enough.  At least I can bake.......otherwise, I&#039;d be broke.  Oh, wait.  I was broke before I got married while living in my apartment.  I&#039;d spend most of my money being a foodie and going out to eat.  Good times.   :  )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I operate the same way with procrastination.  I&#8217;m an INFP as well.  I&#8217;m not completely with you on the junk food thing (I&#8217;m nearly a vegetarian nowadays), but I LOVE sweets and reward myself often enough.  At least I can bake&#8230;&#8230;.otherwise, I&#8217;d be broke.  Oh, wait.  I was broke before I got married while living in my apartment.  I&#8217;d spend most of my money being a foodie and going out to eat.  Good times.   :  )</p>
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		<title>By: ockhamdesign</title>
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		<dc:creator>ockhamdesign</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 15:26:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m also a cleaner when I procrastinate.  I figure as I long as I&#039;m not doing what I&#039;m suppose to be doing, I might as well do something that I won&#039;t have to do later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m also a cleaner when I procrastinate.  I figure as I long as I&#8217;m not doing what I&#8217;m suppose to be doing, I might as well do something that I won&#8217;t have to do later.</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 13:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks!</description>
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